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Hundreds attend funeral of Whitefield, 17, killed in car crash last weekend
SEEKONK - Even before the funeral procession arrived at St. Mary's Church, a line of hundreds of mourners had wrapped around the church waiting to say goodbye to Rebeckha Whitefield, the 17-year-old Attleboro girl who was killed last weekend in a car accident.

Family and friends filed into the church, passing by an honor guard from her field hockey team wearing Attleboro High School blue and white and holding field hockey sticks aloft.

Many of the mourners were teenagers wearing varsity letter jackets and football sweatshirts in tribute to Rebeckha and her football coach father, Michael Whitefield.

Rebeckha was not only an athlete at Attleboro High, her father said she was a die-hard fan of all the school's sports teams.

"She bled blue. She's an Attleboro girl true and true. She had blue pride," he said. Michael Whitefield said he has been overwhelmed by the outpouring of support from family, friends, the schools and the city since his daughter died. He said he will never listen to anyone say anything bad about Attleboro kids.

Whitefield said neighbors have mowed his lawn, friends have cleaned his daughter's room, others have cooked food and helped the family along the way with emotional support.

Students helped organize a candlelight vigil Sunday and people stood in line for hours Wednesday night to pay their respects at her wake.

Michael Whitefield said $7,000 has already been donated to a scholarship fund being established in her memory.

Attleboro Police Capt. David Proia said he would "conservatively estimate" the funeral procession from the church to the cemetary at 250 to 300 vehicles, the largest he has ever seen.

"It was quite a tribute," he said.

Police had to block four major intersections along South Main Street to allow the procession to get through.

School Superintendent Pia Durkin spoke at the funeral, saying Rebeckha personified the Attleboro sense of community.

"Today represents a challenge to what the word community really means and what it stands for - as a community of Becky's family, friends, and neighbors, as a community of Attleboro High School and as a community of those that simply wanted to be here today," Durkin said.

"Becky Whitefield was the essence of that sense of community, a vibrant, smiling, kind, young woman who had so many doors waiting for her to open - so many experiences ahead of her. "But in her short time with us, she shone as bright as a burning candle - for everyone who knew and loved her. And it was that love that made her radiant," Durkin said.

Her classmates have been struggling to come to terms with her death, which came after a vehicle she and AHS freshman Nate Birch were traveling in hit a tree on Oak Hill Avenue during a heavy rain storm last Friday night. Birch is in serious condition at Rhode Island Hospital in Providence.

Hours after attending the funeral, classmate Joe Travers said the atmosphere at the high school has changed since Rebeckha's death, with teens realizing they have to be careful because tragedy could happen to anyone.

"There is definitely a sad vibe at the school. It's very different," he said.

He said he is trying to organize a memorial concert to raise money for her scholarship fund.

"We were friends since freshman year. She sat at my lunch table. She was a great kid. She had a great personality," he said.

Many of her friends have poured out their emotions on a FaceBook memory page, which had more than 600 enteries as of Thursday afternoon.

Chris Brown of Attleboro High School wrote on the site:

"I can't believe that something like this could happen to someone as good and kind hearted as you Becky. Its not natural, and never like this, no one should go like this. My only comfort is that you are looking down on everyone and smiling your goofy smile.

"Look down on me from time to time and let me know you're still there, I'll never forget you."

"Rest in peace Becky, you are loved and missed."

 


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ripbestfriend wrote on Sep 5, 2008 5:59 PM:

" let's set this straight."LocalA" i'm one of becky's bestfriends.i'm pretty sure you have no idea who becky is and will never get the chance to. but don't try and tell the story of what happened you are not a cop nor a detective and you have no idea what went on that night, none of us honestly due. all we know is that an amazing girl was killed in a horrible card accident. don't you dare try and tell people how fast she was going. & people will learn from this people will be more causious on the roads,your right that mistake could have been anyone. but how dare you come at becky like this you have no idea what went on.show some respect to the family and friends. you try losing someone that's like a sister or brother to you getting pulled out of your highschool class to go sit infront of 4 detective's and tell your side of the story. then you can come back. really have some simpathy and give your respects to the family and friends. your just makin this whole situation worse. & i would like to thank everyone that is supporting the family and friends and giving their prayers. "buckle for becky" miss you girl<3 "

jenica25 wrote on Jun 5, 2008 11:34 PM:

" Local you must be one of the most ignorant person I have ever heard. How dare you write such horrible things about a child that has passed away without any regard to those around her that are dying inside from grief. If you don't have anything nice to say then SHUT UP!!!!!! By the way I have never met Rebekah or her family. Just don't think what you are doing is right! "

mmarcia wrote on May 24, 2008 3:58 PM:

" It's sad that this girl lost her life, and her friend is clinging to life - but the facts are plain. There were only two in the car, but the evidence is overwhelming that she did something wrong. She shouldn't have had the friend with her. She should have slowed down. Heck, she should have stayed home. Let her family get through this - I pray God gives them the strength they need. "

mreardon wrote on May 24, 2008 8:43 AM:

" So local why don't you leave a name. I feel sorry for you that you don't have any type of love in your life. It shows by you leaving such heartless letters. You weren't there so please don't try to guess what happened. A person that has to hide behind such a lame name is weak, show some compassion for Gods sake. "

joeforcitycouncil2009 wrote on May 23, 2008 7:57 PM:

" Becky was an amazing girl. However, I dont think its appropriate or neccecary to bash her. She was speecing its obvious. But shes gone and nothing is going to brinng her back. Lets remember her as a girl who always made her friends and family smile. Lets remember her as that girl who loved to ride horses. My thoughts and prayers are with the Whitefield Family.

Joseph "

family wrote on May 23, 2008 5:29 PM:

" Dear LocalA, It's amazing to me that someone could have such a cold heartless heart when my family is grieving so terribly at this time. Maybe if you had sat with the detectives as they told your brother and family how their daughter died you would have checked your facts before making such comments. These kids and the community have been unbelievable through all of this with our family. If any good can come out of this terrible tragedy it is the lesson of the goodness, strength, and full hearts that the youth from the high school and people from the community have shown our family. Please do not try to diminish the shortened life of such a wonderful young girl that you have never had the pleasure of spending time with as evidenced by the thousands of people who's lives she has touched and have supported us at this time. I feel very sad that you have such a shallow, empty life as to make such warrantless statements. I only hope someday you may realize what damage your ignorance can do to people. Please just let Rebeckha rest in peace in order to let our family and friends get through the grieving process we so unwillingly must go through. - Uncle Mark "

jose21 wrote on May 23, 2008 5:04 PM:

" My heart goes out to her family, especially her father. The obituary says that her mother passed away in 1991, the year she was born. I couldn't imagine anyone having to deal with such a tragic loss, twice.

"

jose21 wrote on May 23, 2008 3:19 PM:

" I think we know what the A in local A stands for. "

proudmom3 wrote on May 23, 2008 2:52 PM:

" The only point I was attempting to make with you was a cause to this accident hasn't been determined. I don't need someone like you questioning my mother skills. I take full responsibility for my child, and will use this as a lesson, & hopefully other parents will do the same.



..oh and your reading skills must be as good as my typing. Because I wasn't the one that called this a mistake. "

redsox196775 wrote on May 23, 2008 2:47 PM:

" Hello,

It is most unfortunate and tragic that a life as special as hers was cut short. My condolences to the family and her friends. We shouldn't be debating about parenting skills, carelessness, safety, or anything that had to do with the outcome. We should be paying our respects with positive reminders of how her life was not for not. I myself was not acquinted to Rebeckha but the story was all too familiar with that of my brothers. Anyway, there are no tears in heaven and my thoughts and prayers will be with her family. "

LocalA wrote on May 23, 2008 1:29 PM:

" Of course I'm wrong. That's the problem with parents - there is no accountability. A proud mom you are! I'm sure the next time your kids are in trouble, you will be proud too. "Not My kids they wouldn't do that". Like I said before, until you have lost a family member due to a "Mistake" as you call it. You are just as ignorant to defend them...

...and I hope you are more proud of your kids than you are of your writing skills.
"

proudmom3 wrote on May 23, 2008 1:07 PM:

" Where you in the car? Are you a detective..who the hell do you know how fast the were going..She was a fairly new driver..she could have very easily slid of the WET road, and paniced and hit the gas instead of the break.. you have no idea what happened that night.. no one does.

Don't be so ignorant with the comments you leave. "

LocalA wrote on May 23, 2008 12:59 PM:

" How does it not impact all of us? That "mistake" could have been you or me. I understand it is a tragedy. The Sun chronicle keeps stating rain slicked roads. Well hate to break it to them but it wasn't the rain slicked roads that cause this accident. It was complete disregard for the lives and safety of others. I think your opinion would have a different spin if that jeep would have wrapped around your family's car instead of that tree. I don't think you would be saying "Oh well RIP family people make mistakes". If you disagree you are only fooling yourself.
"

proudmom3 wrote on May 23, 2008 12:36 PM:

" I'm sorry, where you there that night? How dare you leave that kind of comment of a well written article to remember a great girl.

I'm sure plenty have learned from this. It's a horrible thing that it to take losing a beautiful young girl. "

sam wrote on May 23, 2008 12:35 PM:

" Maybe this doesn't impact you but people make mistakes and if you are a parent put yourself in her father's shoes. Doesn't matter how fast they were going. It happened and we can't change that, so stop trying to upset poeple even more. We want to remember the good things about becky not the mistakes she has made. R.I.P Becky "

LocalA wrote on May 23, 2008 11:55 AM:

" I'm not surprised that there was no mention of them doing just under 100 mph down that dark street. Will no one learn? "


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