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Timothy Kelly, 38, of North Attleboro, at right, a swim coach for the North Attleboro High School varsity swim team and the aquatics director at the Attleboro YMCA, was arraigned Tuesday morning in Taunton District Court on possession of child pornography. The judge ordered him held on $75,000 cash bail. (Staff photo by Mark Stockwell)




NORTH ATTLEBORO - Prosecutors say a North Attleboro High School swim coach admitted to downloading more than 200 images of children in sexual acts from the Internet and having a collection of child pornography on computer files and DVDs police allegedly found throughout his apartment.

Meanwhile, Timothy S. Kelly, 38, who lives on the first floor of 49 Richards Ave., in North Attleboro, was freed on $75,000 cash bail after he was arraigned Tuesday in Taunton District Court.

Kelly, known as "T.K.", is also the aquatics director at the Attleboro YMCA, an employee at the Bearcroft Swim Club in Attleboro and previously ran the North Attleboro town pool for several years when he was employed by the North Attleboro Parks and Recreation Department.

As a condition of his release, Kelly was ordered by Judge David Turcotte to stay away from children younger than 18.

Assistant District Attorney Jessica Lennon said Kelly admitted to police to collecting video tapes, DVDs and computer files of children engaged in a "variety of sex acts" since 2003.
"He admitted he had a sexual preference for females between the ages of 10 and 18 years of age," Lennon said during a bail hearing.

Kelly was arrested at home Monday night when North Attleboro and Attleboro detectives and U.S. Immigration Customs Enforcement agents executed a federal search warrant for his apartment.

Police seized his home computer and related computer hardware, such as portable hard drives, which will be analyzed by computer experts, Detective Lt. David Dawes said.

Police say there is currently no evidence any of the alleged child pornography involves area children.

Kelly, who displayed no visible reaction as the allegations were read in court, has been the coach of the North Attleboro High School varsity swim team since it started in 2007. He is also the coach of the Attleboro Y's Tsunami Swim Club.

His arrest is part of an ongoing investigation begun by federal authorities in January when they executed a search warrant for a child pornography suspect in Crystal Springs, Miss., police said.

Lennon said police identified Kelly as a suspect after obtaining subpoenas for computer records for the Internet accounts found on the Mississippi suspect's computer.

Lennon said authorities have computer records indicating Kelly communicated by computer with the Mississippi suspect and talked about a videotape of girls ages 8 to 10 engaged in sex acts with a dog.

She said Kelly made his statements on videotape at the police station when questioned by detectives Dawes and Sgt. John Reilly.

While prosecutors claim they have a strong case against Kelly, his lawyer, Richard Silva Jr. of Fall River, said, "He's still presumed innocent until proven guilty."
He said Kelly was single and has been employed as a swim coach for 11 years without any hint of wrongdoing. Silva said Kelly cooperated with police in what he called a "complex" investigation and would return to court to face the charges.

The court entered an innocent plea on Kelly behalf. He is due back July 14.

He faces a charge of knowingly purchasing or possessing visual material of a child depicted in sexual conduct.

If convicted, Kelly faces a maximum of five years in prison and a maximum $10,000 fine.

His parents were in the courtroom for the proceedings and expressed shock at the allegations against their son but declined to comment. A telephone listing for Kelly was not in service when The Sun Chronicle tried to reach him Tuesday afternoon.

North Attleboro School Superintendent James Rice, who has been in the post since April, released a statement Tuesday morning saying Kelly has no current role with the schools because it is not swimming season.

"The North Attleboro School District has just learned that the High School Swim Coach, Mr. Tim Kelly, is being criminally charged with possession of child pornography," the statement said.

"The school district has cooperated, and will continue to cooperate, with the North Attleboro Police Department. Mr. Kelly is not a teacher or otherwise involved in the schools and at this time the swim team is between seasons, so Mr. Kelly has no current role with the schools.

"The district shall conduct its own investigation into these allegations and shall then take whatever action is appropriate to ensure the safety of our students. The district shall not have any further comment until we have completed our investigation."

Kelly was also suspended from his part-time job at the YMCA.

YMCA Chief Executive Officer Robin McDonald said parents of swim team members are being contacted and a meeting will be arranged to discuss the situation.

"As soon as we learned about his arrest, we took immediate steps to protect our youths," she said.

McDonald also said a background check was conducted on Kelly and his references were checked before he was hired.

The telephone number for the Bearcroft Swim Club was not working Tuesday afternoon.

 


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nextelbluecross wrote on Jul 24, 2009 11:27 AM:

" The clients at MCI Cedar Junction will Love this guy- Have fun in your new home you sick SOB "

karpinter wrote on Jul 23, 2009 12:50 PM:

" What a scumbag. i dont care who he pretended to be, the sheeps clothing has been lifted from this wolf. What a cowardly sick pedofile. Have fun in the general population area at the Dartmouth House Of Corrections. Youll be the next victim, say hi to Bubba for us all. "

Jan wrote on Jul 11, 2009 5:33 AM:

" SWIMMER: You are all wet with your opinions! A great man? tsk, tsk, tsk "

innocentjustice wrote on Jun 28, 2009 11:49 AM:

" PS - there is no cure for pedophilia. There is no way to change that pedophiles are attracted to having sex with very young children, and there is no foolproof way to stop them from doing it. They themselves say raping a young child who screams in pain is stronger than a hit of methamphetamine. "

innocentjustice wrote on Jun 28, 2009 11:46 AM:

" Swimmer, he did hurt children by viewing their images in two ways:

1) he created a demand for new supply of images - if you got out and buy blue shoes, the factory produces more. Same with TK - he demanded more images from his supplier the same way.

2) Those children are American children - like you and me. Every time someone views the image of them being sexually abused it causes pain. Once traded on the Internet, those images will be out there their entire lives and past their deaths. Their humiliation and pain will never end because of what he did. Knowing that he achieved sexual release by viewing their agony hurts them every time a new predator gets caught.

Don't deceive yourself that he didn't do harm because no victims have come forward. Only 5-8% of victims ever come forward in their lifetimes because the of shame they feel. (Acta Criminologica)

Studies of child pornography possessors show that 85% admit to having victims, 13% deny victims but fail a polygraph, and 2% deny victims and pass the polygraph but admit that if they had the opportunity to sexually assault a child they would. (Butner Redux Study -Journal of Family Violence)

American children are the main victims of child pornography viewers, traders and producers. We can stop it now by taking every child pornography trader off the strees. More info: innocentjustice.org "

ButchDuctTape wrote on Jun 27, 2009 11:43 AM:

" Remember me TK?


Have fun in jail. "

Maggot3172 wrote on Jun 26, 2009 5:49 PM:

" We obviously have different opinions on what a "great man" is. A great man, an honorable man, a noble man would have blown the whistle on this scumbag in Mississippi. Remember that this wonderful coach allowed him to continue by downloading from and corresponding with him. "

Maggot3172 wrote on Jun 26, 2009 5:43 PM:

" No different than people who'd defend Michael Jackson after all the sexual assault allegations. Michael was a brilliant entertainer. And maybe this man was a great coach and mentor. But the bottom line is that grown men who view minors in a sexual way need help. Most con men are probably the nicest men you'll ever meet, until they victimize you. And when you are a victim, the damage has been done and it's too late. People are too naive, too trusting, and too easily fooled by the smoke and mirrors. The problem is that Americans always think that it will happen to someone else, never them. A complacent attitude prevails and nobody takes precautions. Until something happens. It's like deciding to constantly lock your house, buy an alarm system, and a dog---after you've been robbed. "

attle wrote on Jun 26, 2009 4:44 PM:

" you would think differently if you were 10 years old, abducted, raped, drugged and forced to have sex with other 10 year old girls and animals and adult men....and possibly left to die if you were over-drugged. THIS HAPPENS. You would think anyone that fed into that industry was responsible. And they ARE. I can't read one more person say he's a great guy. Did you all have a freaking crush on the pig or what? He directly hurt many. "

SwimmerNA5 wrote on Jun 26, 2009 3:42 PM:

" He never directly hurt anyne. The one with the camera in hand did that. I said he clearly has a problem and needs help. It's unfortunate that jail time may be necessary, as apposed to him seeking help earlier. That's the purpose of the correctional facility to rehabilitake so hopefully he comes out a new man and will be able to start a new life somewhere. "

attle wrote on Jun 26, 2009 12:10 PM:

" 'a bit too brutal'. This is offensive to anyone reading it. I'm furious anyone would defend him. "

attle wrote on Jun 26, 2009 11:53 AM:

" and yes, lots of people look at porn. Do you not understand the difference between looking at child porn and looking at people of LEGAL age? Do you think the 10 year old girls in the photos are having sex because they WANT to??? These girls end up damaged forever. PLEASE explain what you don't understand or why you don't agree with this, if you don't mind. "

attle wrote on Jun 26, 2009 11:49 AM:

" swimmer, do you realize that the models for child porn are sometimes abducted, drugged and forced to have sex with animals, adults, etc.? Watch the movie 'Taken'. It's sick. HE (your great TK) had conversations with a man that admitted to drugging kids for the photos....the conversations were about 10 year old girls having sex with dogs. He was most likely 'placing an order'. NOW do not tell anyone that the great TK never directly hurt anyone. Please respond if you could...I really don't understand what it is TKs fans don't get about that fact of the CRIME committed. "

SwimmerNA5 wrote on Jun 26, 2009 11:15 AM:

" Some of you are being a bit too brutal. TK is a great man and an amazing coach and no one could ever convince me out of that statement. He has never hurt a child in any dirrect manner and everything he did was downloading in the pivacy of his home. I believe he needed help with this problem but I also believe he would never touch and child in an unappropriate way. People look up pornographic material all the time because they find themselves attracted to what they see but they don't go around acting on those attractions, in most cases. TK was doing something similar he just has a twisted sense of what is and isn't appropriate to look at. He definatley needs help and I feel it's very unfortunate that he wasn't able to seek help earlier so that he wouldn't have done this to himself. He has destroyed any chance of ever doing the thing he loved and was good at and that was coaching. And he is now an outcast in a community he has done so much for. I feel for the children, there parents, tk, his friends and family, the rest of the team, and our parents. I will always look up to and be thankful of what a good coach and friend TK was to me. "

celeste wrote on Jun 26, 2009 9:29 AM:

" To all of you who claim..."TK never hurt anyone", "its not like he comitted murder or something", "but he didn't act on his fantasies" etc...1) he did hurt someone. He hurt every single child he ever viewed, he hurt them, their families and their ability to ever have a normal, innocent life. 2) The murder here was to some young girl's innocence, to which she is entitled to have and never will again and 3) he most certainly did act out his fantasies by viewing whatever sick acts he did on his computer. His fantasies, while not affecting local children (that we know) DID affect someone's child. Just because you don't know that child, doesn't make it less horrible. I think that's the mentality tht hurts the most..."it wasn't my child" the the child involved is disposable. Defend however you want but do NOT ever think that what he did was harmless...there were REAL children involved here. "

jose21 wrote on Jun 25, 2009 11:15 AM:

" I would agree that there is more to come.

If you give a kleptomaniac the keys to your store and your register, chances are he's going to steal something. If a drug addict is exposed to piles of unguarded drugs, he's probably going to take a few samples.

I hope I'm wrong, but I expect the next shoe to drop shortly. "

alumni wrote on Jun 25, 2009 10:49 AM:

" in response to dixiediva82 and 100's like her...It's just aweful and her story is exactly what I'm afraid of I just think it's only a matter of time until women who now have families and have moved well beyond NA come out and talk about inappropriate behavior. Years ago I was back in NA and at community field with a family member and walked by the pool and joked " Hey does TK still run the pool" and he said yeah...I said are you kidding??? Has anyone looked into that??? I just feel terrible that it was a joke at the time...again trust your instincts there is more to come... "

ricknkim wrote on Jun 25, 2009 9:29 AM:

" tahraann - I hope you are simply being provacative and trying to get under the skin of others on this blog, otherwise your comments are of grave concern - especially if you truly are a psychiatric nurse. You are confusing natural fantasy, something almost everyone has (although many times it is not sexually based), with a fantasy based upon mental illness and criminal intent. These are 2 very different things and I question your professional qualifications for confusing them. "

TT625 wrote on Jun 24, 2009 10:34 PM:

" I didn't say he was a good person just because I know him. All I said is that there ALOT of people hurting over this and all of this is making it worse for THEM. You should try and consider everyone who is affected.
I can't imagine that most of you would be so quick to turn on your own son or father. If so, thats sad.
Think what you want, we are allowed to speak our minds. I choose to take the high road, and not adding any more pain to an already painful situation. "

dixiediva82 wrote on Jun 24, 2009 10:33 PM:

" I'm one of those girls "alumni" called out below ... all grown up and living over 400 miles away from N.A., ... about 14 years ago I spent my entire summer at the N.A. town pool all because I had a crush on TK! Looking back in hindsight, I can remember many times where TK fed into the major crush I had on him (I was 13, he was 24 at the time) in a majorly unhealthy way. Hearing about this makes me want to either throwup or cry. Although, I'm not all that shocked, I'm still disturbed. "

blmass wrote on Jun 24, 2009 10:15 PM:

" RE:TT625 If he was my son, brother, ect. I would still feel the same way, he is trash, knowing him doesn't make him a good person, he is what he is, a pervert. As far as him "dedicating" his life to helping children, give me a break, see it for what it really is will you, he got the job so he could be around children to feed his sexual perversions, that's what people like him do. Lock him up and throw away the key please. "

mcgruff wrote on Jun 24, 2009 10:02 PM:

" Why should I have sympathy for the kids he coached? they were not forced to do horrible things to dogs. Thier coach got arrested, boo hoo - get over it. I have sympathy for the victims. "

TT625 wrote on Jun 24, 2009 9:53 PM:

" Comments like mcgruff, are exactly what I was talking about. Clearly some of you people are incapable of having a mature discussion and are completely unsympathetic to some of these posters are going through.
And in response to motherinme, the man dedicated his life to helping kids and giving back to the community he was raised in. That is a REAL JOB.
If you look around, I'm sure you'll find others who have done the same thing. It doesn't mean they "pervs" or "predators." "

mcgruff wrote on Jun 24, 2009 9:45 PM:

" All that time with your head in the water, chlorine in your brain. No surprise this guy is such a sicko. I'm sure his new frinds in the slammer will enjoy some lessons on the breast stroke. "

rjmminicooper wrote on Jun 24, 2009 9:39 PM:

" For the people in the swimming community my heart goes out to you because I cannot imagine what you are going through. Your achievements, successes,the guidance you received from your coach are important and not to be taken away from you. I don't think any of this discussion is directed at the students or parents of the students. We all know if any parent knew he had a problem you wouldn't put your children in harms way. However, if he was my coach I would be mad, outraged and feel betrayed. I'm not sure I could defend him until I knew all the facts first. Maybe I'm too harsh.

Again, parents no one is blaming you or your children for what happened, how could anyone you didn't see any signs. "

TT625 wrote on Jun 24, 2009 9:39 PM:

" Its clear from all of this back and forth that is an emotional issue, from both sides.
The plain truth is, this could be your son, your father, your brother, your husband, your friend, just like he is mine. Stop and think about that? How would you feel if it were your son? your best friend? Probably just as bad as the parents of those exploited children.
I'm not excusing what he has done, there is no excuse. But it doesn't help to pour gas on the wounds with all of these harsh comments.
I pray for everyone involved, the victims, the community, the Kelly family, his friends and yes, even TK himself.
Maybe those of you who are so quick to cast stones can try doing that. It might actually help the situation and ease some pain, rather contribute to it. "

themotherinme wrote on Jun 24, 2009 9:18 PM:

" There is something I need to ask. Please don't take this the wrong way but did TK have a real job? Or did he have a life outside of calculating how he could continue coaching young swimmers year around? This man is not a kid. Oh I know he gave his life to kids;all that has been said. But really, was it all just a cover up to perpetuate his fantasies? "

naswimmer05 wrote on Jun 24, 2009 8:48 PM:

" I realize that people have a right to their opinion and they are allowed to say what they want, but these harsh comments hurt a lot of people who know TK well. I have known TK for 8 years and swam on the North swim team all four years of highschool. I have always looked up to TK and always will no matter what. Although what has happend has truly upset me and hurt me alot, everyone has made mistakes. As I see it he has never touched anyone inappropriately, and he did not perform these acts on children, nor did he film them himself. I do not agree with it and it is wrong but open your eyes he did not commit a murder. He's a great guy who loved his job and did nothing but help his swimmers strive them to be better. He brought our team to four years of conference championships, our team grew as a family and will continue to grow as a family. And we owe that to TK. So, in conclusion people need to back off and watch what you are saying. TK is loved and cared about by many people in this town and these harsh words hurt us and make us upset. I have been affected by this greatly and it hurts to see all the awful things that people who barely know him are saying. TK,if you read this hang in there...my family and I are thinking about you. "

themotherinme wrote on Jun 24, 2009 8:47 PM:

" I have no doubt TK was warm, loving, caring and supportive of all the children he coached. And although there are no reports of him crossing the line he was walking a very fine line. The videos may have helped to keep his sickness checked.
If everyone was able to take two steps back and view the situation without the emotion these posts have brought we can see TK displayed most of the traits that predators possess. We were blinded by his wonderful ways and it is this blindness that clouds this affliction that will take awhile to see through. North Attleboro-please heal. "

bigredbaseball07 wrote on Jun 24, 2009 8:26 PM:

" I forgot everyone in this chat room is perfect and can judge him and has never done anything wrong. I understand he made a huge mistake, but in my eyes he's still the same guy that kept me in the game of baseball when I wanted to quite my sophmore year...it's a good thing he was there for all of players. You can probably figure out who this is put A and B together, but TK hang in their alot of your former players are here for you. "

alumni wrote on Jun 24, 2009 8:05 PM:

" We should all just hope that he did not act out on his sick desires but my gut says this story is just in the first chapter ( i hope not ). There is a large group of people in the community that have know Tim since grade school and although I see from this blog many parents had no clue...But there is a large group that as the news passed and along to old friends who are in other communities and other states many were not shocked by the news...We all should do more and trust our instincts. "

hawk1 wrote on Jun 24, 2009 7:46 PM:

" Tahraan is probably wiping his harddrive as we speak. "

jb203 wrote on Jun 24, 2009 7:38 PM:

" tahraann wrote on Jun 24, 2009 5:37 PM:it doesnt make the man a criminal unless he acts on it.

Hey Tahraan, He did act on it. He was charged with "possession of child pornography". Since it is illegal to "possess child pornography" that makes him a criminal. Say what you want, sexual thoughts about young children is NOT normal. If you truly are in the field you say you are then I would think you should know that. "

parentofswimmer wrote on Jun 24, 2009 6:04 PM:

" My daughter has know TK for what seems like forever. We never suspected. My daughter was his student and he was her mentor. He has supported her from the time she was 8 to where she is now, getting ready to go to college. He has never done anything inappropriate so this news came as a shock and a disappointment. She watched it on the news and had to leave the room in tears. This is not the person we knew. I am hoping we wake up tomorrow and this was just a bad dream. My prayers go out to his parents and to the children that feel deceived. The law will determine his fate. "

offended wrote on Jun 24, 2009 5:38 PM:

" and the little 10 year old girls he is paying to watch be raped lost everything the second they were brought into his dirty world. I never said I was righteous. "

tahraann wrote on Jun 24, 2009 5:37 PM:

" you people are so uptight and rigid. have you ever left your house? it is a fantasy! so what! it doesnt make the man a criminal unless he acts on it. and NO i dont see patients related to this, i simply said i study human behaviour! human behaviour! its normal. people are not all righteous and holy. stop being so judgemental! think for a minute how much this mans life has been ruined by this and how he must be feeling! he is going to lose everything! "

offended wrote on Jun 24, 2009 5:29 PM:

" hmmm, you know the stats from spending time in the psychiatric ward. Enough said. NORMAL people wouldn't be there. HELLO!!!! "

tahraann wrote on Jun 24, 2009 5:27 PM:

" actually, i am a psychiatric nurse so i do know alot about human behaviour. men have alot of sexual fantasises that they would probably never admit to their wives or anyone else. say what you will, but i know the stats. "

offended wrote on Jun 24, 2009 5:19 PM:

" Since you mention. Yep, all sorts of fantasies....group, bi, amounst others. Call me weird if you want. Never ONCE ever ever ever....did any of my fantasies EVER involve...can't even finish the sentence it sickens me so much. oooooo, never animals either. So what's your point? "

jk1976 wrote on Jun 24, 2009 5:18 PM:

" tahraan- your comment on this and the other story lead me to believe you should seek counseling. child pornography is an aberrant behavior and a heinous crime against children, certainly not anyting that "most" men partake in. "

hawk1 wrote on Jun 24, 2009 5:14 PM:

" Are you for real? "

tahraann wrote on Jun 24, 2009 5:12 PM:

" basically people are weird (mostly men) and have all kinds of strange weird sexual fantasies involving young children, animals, group sex, etcetc. you probably do yourself. lay off the guy. he is no different than any other man he just happend to be one of the unlucky ones to get caught. "

offended wrote on Jun 24, 2009 5:04 PM:

" preggo, not to mention that he may be guilty of more than viewing porn. The article states he was discovered through a child porn suspect because he was having electronic 'conversations' regarding 10 years olds having sex with dogs. Could very well have been placing his order OR may not have been....but the unanswered question certainly leads me and most others to question his integrity. "

PREGGO wrote on Jun 24, 2009 4:58 PM:

" Sharpie, your not that sharp are you? Viewing Child porn doesn't give reason to question his integrity ? Are you serious.
What does my unborn child have to do with any of this? I sure hope you dont have or ever have children, you may just feed them to the wolves. "

sharpie wrote on Jun 24, 2009 4:52 PM:

" preggo, stop blogging and go take some prenatal vitamins. TK has never given ANYONE a reason to quuestion his integrity and if you cant understand that i honestly feel bad for you and your unborn child. "

Duffman wrote on Jun 24, 2009 4:43 PM:

" murphy1
It was a small attempt at humor. This is a very serious subject and I was trying to lighten the mood. If one person was slightly amused by my comment then "MISSION ACCOMPLISHED!" "

tahraann wrote on Jun 24, 2009 4:41 PM:

" i dont think my comment was offensive. all i said was this guy must have had his "dream job" seeing the kids in their bathing suits everyday. after all he was a swim coach coaching the specific age group in which he has a "sexual preferance" for. "

offended wrote on Jun 24, 2009 4:41 PM:

" right you are, Ricknkim....I think it's the nature of the story and then hearing kids say how great he is...really, it's hard not to cry. I let my emotions get the best of me out of frustration trying to get the message through to the young adults. It's not my place to do that. "

murphy1 wrote on Jun 24, 2009 4:19 PM:

" why would you try to change the subject? this is a blog dedicated to this subject, if you dont want to hear about it then dont come to this website. this is actually important to some people and your probably just bored trying to find someone to talk to. there are chatrooms for that. please dont leave stupid comments on a blog that actually has some importance. "

celeste wrote on Jun 24, 2009 4:16 PM:

" naswimmer "but TK was just looking at images and in no way was involved in the production or distruibiton of them", by requesting and purchasing these images, videos or what ever they were, he was most certainly involved in distribution. As for production, if something was done to a child at his request, then he was involved in the production too. Sometimes "just looking" is too much when it involves a child being abused, molested and/or raped. I wouldn't want anyone "just looking" at my child. I understand how children that had a swimmer/coach realtionhip with him would have trouble reconciling the two very different sides of TK. But, in all honesty, if TK were concerned about children, he really should have thought twice before his first mouse click on a site(s) that victimizes them. "

Duffman wrote on Jun 24, 2009 4:13 PM:

" How about them Red Sox? "

preggo wrote on Jun 24, 2009 4:11 PM:

" Sharpie, he is not two different people! He is a Child predator, he dedicated his life to working with children. Feeding his revolting attraction to children every day! This is acceptable? Wow "

sharpie wrote on Jun 24, 2009 3:57 PM:

" whatever you think about this whole situation, it is blatantly clear that the TK who dedicated his life to this community every day and the TK who sat behind a computer screen in a lonely apartment are two very different people "

celeste wrote on Jun 24, 2009 3:54 PM:

" Also, to northswimmer, you have a unique realtionship with TK. I don't know him at all. BUt, to say he "would never hurt a fly" is very inaccurate. He hurt someone else's child. That's far worse. My sympathies go out to you. It's a hard lesson (and one no one should EVER have to learn) that not all friendly adults are your friend. I sincerely hope that this doesn't erode your trust in all adults, but also makes you remember that all adults aren't worthy of your trust. "

murphy1 wrote on Jun 24, 2009 3:51 PM:

" And as for the suspension that was put on TK at his job, WTF is that? HELLO his whole career revolves around little children, get him the hell out of there, whether he is convicted or not he already admitted to his behavior WHERE IS YOUR FRIGGIN HEAD AT? "

murphy1 wrote on Jun 24, 2009 3:50 PM:

" I used to be a member of the North Attleborough Town Pool when I was younger, at the time of TK working there. To this day (almost 5 years later) I will never forget him. He made being at summer camp fun!! I have never had a bad thing to say about TK nor have I ever met anyone who did. The fact that I spent from ages 10-15 at that pool in my bikini makes me sick to my stomach. TK if your reading this- I want you to know how much you have disappointed everyone who looked up to you. I never had you as a coach or anything like that but I spent A LOT of time with you because I hated Community school camp. BUT what bothers me THE MOST is that my little sister was at that camp with me the whole time too. DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA HOW MANY QUESTIONS ARE LEFT UNANSWERED TODAY? Whether you took it to a personal level or not, because of you there is THAT MUCH MORE MONEY going to the rape and abuse of these little kids. Hearing this news is unbelievable and I want everyone who is feeling the way I am to know that your not the only one and Im sorry your going through it. I am VERY DISAPPOINTED and disgusted and shocked. "

celeste wrote on Jun 24, 2009 3:47 PM:

" Bottom line is no matter what he did (or didn't do) for the community and the children in it, he brought perversion to someone else's community. If it weren't for people like this, there would be no market for child porn. So just because nothing happened with your children, doesn't mean he didn't cause it to happen to someone else's. How would you all like to realize that your child was being victimized just because some nameless, faceless person across the country had the sick desire to see it happen. Come on people wake up. "

preggo wrote on Jun 24, 2009 3:46 PM:

" Do you know how many child abuse victims do NOT come forward until 10, 20 30 or more years later. Being assaulted by someone you trust or someone who may have threatened your family is not easy for anyone especially children! Just because he hasn't been caught does not mean it hasn't happened! "

NorthParent wrote on Jun 24, 2009 3:45 PM:

" By the way, my response was to TT625. "

NorthParent wrote on Jun 24, 2009 3:44 PM:

" That's certainly all I'm trying to say. Thank you. "

preggo wrote on Jun 24, 2009 3:43 PM:

" The truth is ugly, and with young people they seem to respond to the in your face tactics.. Why do you think during prom season smashed up cars are on most main intersections! THE MESSAGE NEEDS TO BE LOUD AND CLEAR!Child porn is not a bad habit, it is abuse! "

TT625 wrote on Jun 24, 2009 3:41 PM:

" I think what a majority of the so called "sympathizers" are trying to get across here is that ALOT of people are devastated by this news.
Noone is asking that we ignore the allegations, or pretend that what TK is accused of isn't a heinous crime.
But remember, in the 20 some odd years he has worked in this community he has never once been accused of anything inappropriate and ALOT of people loved him.
You don't have to have sympathy for him, but show some respect and sympathy for the people who have known and loved him, they are struggling and grieving. "

ricknkim wrote on Jun 24, 2009 3:28 PM:

" I'm not sure talking down to or confronting some of the posters who appear to be rather young is very productive. It is easy to see many faults with their reasoning/remarks and bring these to their attention, but I think they are in too defensive and argumentative a mood to grasp some of the underlying issues regarding the accused.

For some, this may be the first time that someone they admired and saw as a role-model has been exposed as something sinister - that can be a very difficult experience for a child/young adult. "

preggo wrote on Jun 24, 2009 3:25 PM:

" I do not understand those of you with mixed feelings, are you confused by the charges? Let me lay it out for you, this man has admitted to viewing and purchasing child porn, children being raped by animals and men. He has built his career working with YOUR children, feeding his perversion on a daily basis. Those of you who can't get past learning the back stroke from this pig may need some counseling as well! He is a child predator. WAKE UP "

offended wrote on Jun 24, 2009 3:05 PM:

" you have no idea what you're talking about and someday you might realize this. Bingo put it best. He paid someone to have a child raped in front of a camera. enough said...except this, I'm over 40. I do have a life, thank you. And no one gives a Rats A_ _ if he was the 'greatest coach ever' or inspired anyone. AGAIN, think about why he pursued this opportunity. I'm getting sick and tired of these bewildered children telling me I have NO CLUE because TK was soooo inspiring and wonderful. You'll realize someday. And you'll be sick about it when you do. "

hawk1 wrote on Jun 24, 2009 3:04 PM:

" More than just a problem. I am sure people's reactions are to defend him but think about it unemotionally(if possible). He was a coach and viewing children engaged in sex acts. "

northswimmer wrote on Jun 24, 2009 2:54 PM:

" I personally think that everyone should just shut their mouths. Yeah he has a problem, but none of you knew him the way we did. In no way would I ever have guessed he would do something like this. Tk is the greatest coach I have ever and will ever have. He has a huge heart and would never hurt a fly. TK changed my life. I'm just as disgusted as you are but get a life and stop leaving comments on this thing, you didnt know him so get on with your life and find something better to do, Tk is not ever going to touch your children so don't worry about it. You should worry more about where they are right now there are plenty of worse people out there. TK has a problem and will get help, so for now why don't you do the same and get some help because I'm sure a lot of you people commenting on this are like 40 years old and fighting back and forth on a computer. grow up "

NorthParent wrote on Jun 24, 2009 2:13 PM:

" Please remember that there are many stages of grief and many people that know TK are grieving. There has been a loss here. It's like there are two TK's because it is so hard for us to imagine that the one we know could do the things that the TK in the news has done. Personally, I am still so upset that I haven't reached the angry stage but I'm sure it will come. So, let's respect each other's feelings without the name calling. "

bingo wrote on Jun 24, 2009 2:12 PM:

" I think that the "sympathizers" here, just cant let their minds go to what this monster did. Lets simplify it. By buying this material, he paid someone to film some little child being raped. Do you get it now? "

forthekids wrote on Jun 24, 2009 2:05 PM:

" As a mental health professional who works with children and a mom, I have NO sympathy for creeps like this guy. Yes, most pedophiles do suffer from mental illness, but that is NOT an excuse. In most cases, they still know right from wrong. The damage they cause to children is irreversible and unforgivable. I have seen way too many children institutionalized for life due to sexual acts done to them. This guy shouldn't even be allowed bail. The court system needs to crack down harder on these creeps. Most recommit their crimes once released. I feel in many ways sexual crimes are worse than murder because the victim has to live with it forever and in many cases, never recovers. "

jose21 wrote on Jun 24, 2009 1:39 PM:

" But bingo, he did teach some kids how to swim, so he can't be that bad of a person. "

bingo wrote on Jun 24, 2009 1:26 PM:

" Cant believe what I am reading. Here is this pervert, paying money to a company to film pictures of little children - probably abducted - having sex with animals and bloggers here are defending him, calling him a nice man that needs therapy. He has EVERYTHING to do with the filming. He pays people to film for him - then he buys it. What are you missing? If you think that he is just a misguided individual that likes sexual interplay with 10 year olds, then something is wrong with you, too. He should be given life with no chance of parole - and castration. Maybe he should also be charged with murdering the souls of these little lost children. Think of the therapy they will need. Your sympathy for this monster is misguided. What if it was your child? "

ddzwalker wrote on Jun 24, 2009 12:33 PM:

" My daughter attended Club Red at North Attleboro Middle School about 10 years ago.TK was in charge of it and my daughter really love it. I am saddened to hear about this sad situation. She really liked TK but now this places a lot of uncertainty in my mind. "

anniet wrote on Jun 24, 2009 11:57 AM:

" I am shutting it off- but unfortunately alot of psychologists see an addictive personality as one thing and it manifests different ways- and you know noone knows whether he is just a horrid person or a person who has a sickness so until I ever know that for sure than only God can judge and so good bye "

anniet wrote on Jun 24, 2009 11:55 AM:

" I need to stop reading also- too overwhelming "

Auk wrote on Jun 24, 2009 11:54 AM:

" anniet - big difference between being a drug addict and a purveyor of child pornography, if you think they are the same thing your out of your mind. Sorry if you like this guy, but this is what public message boards are all about, if you dont want to see negative opinions of this guy, turn of your computer. You wont find many sympathetic people here. "

anniet wrote on Jun 24, 2009 11:53 AM:

" Just one other quick comment- alot of what TK volunteered and worked at and prob. more than half was done not just for girls but boys ( and he is not into boys) and not just swimmers in bathing suits but for kids fully clothed in alot of other sports- and sorry if I am trying to get across the fact that I can have the feelings I have with not condoning anything and knowing that TK is sick and did bad things- I am sorry I like alot of people are very mixed up right now feeling both ways and it is ok if you do not get this or feel the same way- "

offended wrote on Jun 24, 2009 11:53 AM:

" and I got way too angry...I have to stop reading. Best of luck to all that know him and have had close experiences with him. I hope time and facts help sort through all the bad feelings. "

anniet wrote on Jun 24, 2009 11:49 AM:

" sorry no contest- I am sure you are a good person as am I- just maybe felt that you sounded as if because you have different feelings than I that maybe you were morally superior- maybe took it the wrong way - this has been a difficult and emotionally draining few days for those who knew or thought they knew TK extremely well- and I am sorry processing the "man" with the so called "monster" is difficult- as for daughters swimming with Tk I can only speak for myself and the swim people I have spoken to to say that at no time did TK's behaviour or attitude make us uncomfortable and our daughters were never made to feel uncomfortable-and we have had long chats with them- for what ever that is worth- again not lecturing anyone- just trying to get our feelings across as you are also doing people- I pray for the kids in the video, the kids and friends and family and parents who knew and cared about TK and yes even TK - "

offended wrote on Jun 24, 2009 11:44 AM:

" And be sure to begin your response with 'no one says what he did was OK but...' or 'I'm not defending the great TK but...'. He likes watching babies have s_x with dogs and it's wrong. He did not do anything great for the town. That's over now that the cat is out of the bag. THINK for a minute WHY he pursued that job or volunteer opportunity. "

offended wrote on Jun 24, 2009 11:37 AM:

" Anniet, it's a contest to see who is more moral, religious or cares about kids more???? I'm a very good person, moral, religious and REALLY care about kids. More than you?? I'll never know that, will I? Now what did that accomplish? You lay off. I have not insulted anyone here. I'm outraged and OFFENDED that I'm being lectured to 'think about the kids'. I am sick to my stomach over this. I never called him a monster or any childish name. Why should I lay off? He did the disgusting things I spoke about. I will have and state my opinion on this one. "

liss wrote on Jun 24, 2009 11:35 AM:

" oh, please. don't even try to say that viewing the images and videos does not encourage filming. have you ever heard of supply and demand? "

foxboromom wrote on Jun 24, 2009 11:32 AM:

" Yes, he viewed these images. But no one can say that he had nothing to do with encouraging the filming. The network of these perverts is unbelievable and oftentimes they can request certain acts to be filmed for them. "

anniet wrote on Jun 24, 2009 11:29 AM:

" No one is saying what TK did is right and yes we should all be allowed to vent but no one needs to attack someone - because the swim community is not jumping on everyone's lynching band wagon does not give you the right to attack- you can have your anger and resentment and moral outrage but let the rest of us alone-and whether or not he is sick, or as you think a scumbag or anything else- I am sorry, he is no longer someone to look up to, he needs depending on your point of view punishment or help, there are victims, and he was definately wrong to do this but- without defending what he did or what we now know about him-it does not change the fact that he DID CARE and HELP lots of kids and he did do alot and unfortunately that will not change - big time tarnish but not change-and pardon us for trying to get our own kids and their friends past this- the only negative thing I do need to vent is lay off offended- I doubt you are more moral, ethical or religious or protective of kids than I am- we just differ in our views-I am def. done now- because I cannot read some of this stuff any more it is too upsetting even to me "

liss wrote on Jun 24, 2009 11:24 AM:

" backin88: no, we're not the only ones allowed to voice our opinions, but it is an issue that hits rather close to home for many of us because we swam under him while we were in his ~preferred age range. you think all parents are distressed by this--think of how OUR parents feel, knowing that we were around him in bathing suits all that time. "

liss wrote on Jun 24, 2009 11:21 AM:

" the response to the article is disgusting on two levels.

one: tk is not a monster. he's a man with a sick (really, really sick) addiction, he's a creep, he deserves jail time for it. but he's not a monster.

two: a lot of people looked up to him. i get this. i certainly did. but that doesn't mean he is innocent, no matter how much you want him to be. yes, innocent until proven guilty (and believe me, i want him to be innocent), but be skeptical when it comes to stuff like this.

it just goes to show you that predators are everywhere. yes, watching child pornography is predatory behavior. you may have grown up with someone, respected them and whatnot, but you DON'T know everything about them. proceed with caution. "

kmchop wrote on Jun 24, 2009 11:14 AM:

" we should burn him at the stake!!! he's a scumbag!!! Come on now. The guy engaged in some pretty gross stuff, given. He should spend some time in the pen or someplace where he can get a mental evaluation, undergo intensive therapy and then closely monitored for life, but he wasn't charged with rape, kidnapping, or anything else. Even if I didn't know this guy I hope that I wouldn't be jumping on the 'lynching' bandwagon here....and it's a good thing that being a moron isn't a crime. And I'm not referring to you JOSE...moron hahaha "

offended wrote on Jun 24, 2009 11:14 AM:

" I couldn't even get through reading all the posts. This is frustrating. First off...stop lecturing us about 'thinking about the kids that are devastated and looked up to him' HE DID NOT THINK ABOUT THE KIDS. Got it? "He did so much for this town and the rec dept." Really? Did you have any idea how much he really really ENJOYED what he was doing for the town and KIDS? Gross! Anyone can be a nice person but if they are getting sexually arroused by looking at the kids that they are working with then it is SICK. And stop coming to his defense about 'only looking at the photos in the privacy of his own home'...how would you feel if your father enjoyed looking at 10 year old girls in s_x acts with dogs??? I don't know how else to get the point across that it's not normal...normal sane people do not do that. It IS horrible looking at the photos because if there were no market for it then the kids in the pictures would not be subjected to it. PERIOD. Get over the nice guy thing. Most people can appear to be anything they want in public. "

ridiculous wrote on Jun 24, 2009 11:10 AM:

" naswimmer, you need to use a little common sense in coming to your conclusion. If there weren't people like Mr. Kelly just "looking" at these images, individuals wouldn't have the propensity to distribute and share these disgusting images. People wouldn't put on the show if it weren't for an audience willing to view it. In no way, shape or form is it O.K. to be involved with this type of material on ANY level. Many offenders out there started off by just "looking." "

anniet wrote on Jun 24, 2009 11:09 AM:

" sorry I could not sit by and have naswimmer attacked-I have to defend naswimmer -she is probably part of the swim community and you have no idea what she is feeling- stop attacking them- they have the right to their opinions and theirs are as valid as anyones- just because you think TK should be strung up does not give you the moral high ground- also for the guy who is an addict- on a psychological basis all addictions stem from the same personality disorder so unfortunately although yours manifested itself with physical addictions, they can be the same- and that does not mean you will have ever feel the need to look at child porn but it also does not give you any right to sneeze at someone else's addictions and illnesses and for the person who had the cancer comment- mental illnesses are just as much illnesses and real as physical illnesses-leave naswimmer alone "

ricknkim wrote on Jun 24, 2009 10:58 AM:

" I'd be quite surprised, hurt, angry and embarrassed kmchop if that were the case. "

Auk wrote on Jun 24, 2009 10:52 AM:

" naswimmer - As an alcoholic and a drug addict, I am insulted you would compare a person who enjoys seeing children exploited to me. I see no moral equivalency here. "

bingo wrote on Jun 24, 2009 10:46 AM:

" To naswimmer:
Your defense of this pervert is indefensible. To state that this man "was only looking at child porn, not distributing it" is unforgivable. You state that this man has a sickness. Cancer is a sickness - not sitting in front of a computer and paying to watch enslaved children participate in sexual activities. I cant believe that you actually posted your comments. "

kmchop wrote on Jun 24, 2009 10:40 AM:

" pretty sick situation. scary to think that 'man' has it in him to have propensities to such things. Whether he was a victim at some point or not, he is still sick and needs help. Hopefully Tim assists in some sort of studies that will help us to understand how this happens and ways to prevent it. Equally as creepy as Tim's behavior is the level of witchhunting and mob mentality that some of the people on this site are engaging in. Don't be surprised ricknkim and jose if there are some sick individuals in your respective families. "

ricknkim wrote on Jun 24, 2009 10:27 AM:

" I have a lot of sympathy for family, friends and students who love/look up to this "man". Don't confuse my anger directed at TK for anything negative towards the kids/friends/family.

As for your comment naswimmer, I can't agree with you at all. The simple posession of that material creates demand, demand creates the situation where some other monster exploited and photographed those innocent children. TK is guilty of contributing to the exploitation of those kids whether you wish to agree with that or not. "

anniet wrote on Jun 24, 2009 10:26 AM:

" Just a P.S. because I ran long- altho not a victimless crime because of the kids in the video-Tk , as naswimmer states is not the one who actually was involved with any of that and because we have just found out about this does not change the fact that for some of us there has been 16-17 years of good deeds and knowing a good man and that cannot be reconciled over night-I am sorry - we were so involved with him and those of you who were not can probably never understand but that is the way it is- and again the swim community may not be suffering like those children in the video but they are the children we are near and personally care about and so we need to be there for them - sorry he has never hurt anyone that I know or that was involved with him only has helped people so pardon me and tons of other swim parents who would rather see him be helped for his "illness" - again after this P.S. I really cannot bear to respond to those of you who do not understand how we feel- "

ld09 wrote on Jun 24, 2009 10:22 AM:

" NASWIMMER - I'm sorry for what you must be dealing with but this guy is just as responsible as those filming these poor kids. "

anniet wrote on Jun 24, 2009 10:09 AM:

" My last comment on the subject- I am not lecturing anyone or telling anyone that they cannot be outraged, angry, sickened or what ever else- and I am not defending TK if he did this and yes I understand the pain of the children in the videos and that TK brought this on himself if it is true- am only letting you know what many of your communities children and parents are feeling now as stated by so many and we have the right to our feelings as well as we were some of the most involved with him-this is a sad confusing time and pardon a lot of people if it will take awhile to sink in that the man we cared about and respected and who was wonderful to our children could be this other person - and yes I am not naive I know that based on what you read tons of people live double lives but that does not mean that up until that article came out, we all thought well of him and we and our children are saddened, upset, overwhelmed, shocked and and confused. although I know the kids in those videos are victims in the every day world , we must also care for those that we know well and who are suffering right next to us- we have to comfort and be concerned with them on a personal basis- I am sorry that you cannot see that and be a tad empathetic "

naswimmer wrote on Jun 24, 2009 10:07 AM:

" You're making it sound like he was the one who filmed these poor children, which he wasn't. It's truely awful what those kids had to go through and the people responsible for that should be put away for life, but TK was just looking at images and in no way was involved in the production or distruibiton of them. "

naswimmer wrote on Jun 24, 2009 10:04 AM:

" I understand your point of view ricknkim, but at the same time peple need to udnerstand that he has a sickness and needs help. Like a drug addict or an alcoholic, he has an addiction and he should go somewhere that can help him through the issuses that he has and help him control it. What isn't going to help is people coming on here and saying "Oh, I've known it all along" because if the people that knew him close and personally and there parents didn't recongize a problem, then there's no way someone could've 20 years ago. Also, calling him a 'monster' or a 'bad guy' isn't the right thing to do, he's a person with a family and people who love them so have respect for them please. "

jose21 wrote on Jun 24, 2009 10:04 AM:

" Right on Rick - I feel for the local kids and the families that are impacted by this, but the pain they feel is nothing compared to the pain felt by the small children that were forced to do horrilbe things in front of a camera so that dirt bags like this can get their rocks off.
Maybe some people should refocus their anger here. Don't point fingers at those of us that are commmenting about how horrible of a person this man is; point fingers at him for what he has done.
These kids, the swimmers, will get over it. The poor childen in those pics will not. "

ricknkim wrote on Jun 24, 2009 9:54 AM:

" Good luck getting people to hold back pointed questions and comments regarding this "man". When a child is involved, whether through direct or indirect exploitation, all bets are off and the blood pressure rises.

There is little understanding and no respect when any crime involving children surfaces. All the great things he's done in the past means nothing now - that is his and only his fault.

Of course the children he coached will feel pain, confusion and distrust. Imagine what the children in those videos felt? I'd like to think those kids pain trumps a swimmers pain because her/his coach is being verbally abused on a comment board.

The posters on here did not create this situation. The newspaper is not making this stuff up. TK created this situation - he shall now have to deal with it as will the kids who have seen yet another of their idols/role models tarnished. "

Realist wrote on Jun 24, 2009 9:41 AM:

" jk1976 -- I asked a question. Yes or no would have sufficed. I did not ask for a lecture. "

NorthParent wrote on Jun 24, 2009 9:39 AM:

" Thank you anniet. I couldn't have said it better. "

anniet wrote on Jun 24, 2009 9:33 AM:

" Would everyone please stop= the swim community- parents and children are saddened and confused ,grappling with the fact that these charges cannot be reconciled with the TK everyone knew, respected and cared about- it is a sad day for ALL and there has never been nor is there now any indication that he ever was inappropriate with swimmers , in fact , although someone will think this strange and make a sarcastic ignorant comment about what I am about to say and that is the fact that he always went overboard to protect the kids.Many are struggling to reconcile the Tk they know with the TK in the newspaper and it is difficult especially for the younger kids- no one is condoning his actions and all understand it is sick and he needs help- but you have to understand that many many kids were encouraged to do well in school, life and swim by him and there was never a whiff of inpropriety so most are shocked, saddened and upset and do not need to be critisized for not reacting the way you think that they should- all is just sinking in and just hours before he was arrested noone thought badly of him .I Feel bad for young swimmers and their parents who looked up to him and cared about him and who were not hurt by him- how do you explain- crass comments are hurting not helping the situation-read article usually viewers do not touch- "

east154 wrote on Jun 24, 2009 9:27 AM:

" Any type of behavior like this is disturbing especially when children are involved. Again, let's hold our stones, wait and watch. "

jk1976 wrote on Jun 24, 2009 9:21 AM:

" Realist- possession of the materials in and of itself is illegal, acting or not acting on his fantasies is irrelevant although certainly cause for many to worry if he took his behavior further. As a mother of 2 young children, I wouldn't want a person of this character or with the tendencies anywhere near my children.. not coaching their swim team, not living 2 doors down from the school. "

east154 wrote on Jun 24, 2009 9:19 AM:

" in reply to Realist, as of now there are no allegations regarding sexual abuse of any sort. The two are seperate and hopefully they will stay that way. "

NorthParent wrote on Jun 24, 2009 9:19 AM:

" No, there aren't, and these are the comments that I wish people would think about before they post them. "

east154 wrote on Jun 24, 2009 9:18 AM:

" I agree with northparent, children are hurting and confused now. We need to help them understand this situation. Let's let the court system do its job and then start throwing stones. "

Realist wrote on Jun 24, 2009 9:15 AM:

" As sick as his collection may be, are there any allegations that he acted on his fantasies with the kids on his team? "

NorthParent wrote on Jun 24, 2009 9:04 AM:

" Let's try to remember that many of these children looked up to TK and are confused and really hurting right now. They don't need to be reading comments like the one from tahraann. "